Evening Kids
I actually enjoyed this year’s Grammy Awards! There were so many musical icons who graced the stage! Now, I’m more a fan of the old school, than a lot of this new synthesized and remastered crap now-a-days, but I do find some of it to be entertaining and sometimes good! One of my favorites from the R & B group is Rihanna! I think she is the cat’s pajamas and she totally blows Beyonce out of the water. When she pulled a “no-show” at the Grammy’s Sunday night with Chris Brown, The Associated Press began to go nuts and reported that at 12:30 AM on Sunday morning Chris Brown was arrested on assault charges. According to the law, the press cannot release the name of the victim, but EVERYONE knows it was Rihanna who was Chris’s companion that evening. They had both attended a pre-Grammy party held by Clive Davis.
Chris and Rihanna at the part for Clive Davis just hours before the incident took place


Chris and Rihanna leaving Clive Davis’s party early Sunday morning.
This is absolutely a DISGRACE for Chris Brown. The fact that he has been open and candid in the past about watching his mother endure years of physical abuse from his Step-Father makes this incident even more horrific. In an interview in 2007 with GIANT magazine, Chris Brown stated his father would beat down his mother to the “white meat”:
” He made me terrified all the time, terrified like I had to pee on myself,” Brown told the publication.
“I remember one night he made her nose bleed. I was crying and thinking, ‘I’m just gonna go crazy on him one day…’ I hate him to this day.”
Some of his fans are “waiting” for the outcome of the police report and the court date set for early March, but anyone with an iota of common sense knows what is going on here. A black gossip blog called Bossip.com is has reported that Chris Brown beat up Rihanna because she had given him Herpes. First of all, this is total irresponsible and ridiculous journalism. They wrote a headline with that caption, but there was NOTHING within the posting to back it up. Besides, how could you even back something like that up? The sexual history of these two individuals is completely and totally IRRELEVANT to the charges of physical abuse! Is Bossip. Com suggesting that contracting Herpes is a good reason for beating someone up? That is asinine! If they get sued for SLANDER I would not even bat an eyelash! This is another example about how backwards and hypocritical this country truly is.
The media was ready to tar and feather Michael Phelp’s for smoking some ganja a couple months ago. Kellogs took away his contract and other corporations have threatened to follow suit. He didn’t inflict physical harm to ANYONE by taking a couple hits from a bong. Chris Brown allegedly gave Rihanna a contusion on both sides of her face, a split lip, bloody nose, swelling, bruising, and BITE marks all over her arm and fingers. (From TMZ) We all know this could not have been the first time in a year since the couple has been together than Chris has abused her. This is just the first time he was got caught.
Wrigley’s has suspended the ads that they have with Chris Brown until he receives his due process. That’s not enough though! Chris Brown is on the cover of many teen magazines. He has been glorified by the music community as being an “example” to the youth of America. The mere fact that these charges have been filed should be grounds enough for dismissal. It would be an excellent opportunity to use him as example to the rest of the world, that domestic violence is UNACCEPTABLE and not TOLERATED in the country. It is clear that people jut don’t care. I just came across a young woman’s Facebook status which reads “I just don’t understand what the big deal is about Chris Brown “ruffin” up Rihanna?”
Chris Brown= Evil little prick
I have erased him as a friend off of Facebook. I have written some excellent reviews of his music that I have erased as well. I will NEVER be a fan and support this artist again, or ANY artist that is involved in violence. I am team Rihanna ALL THEY WAY! I pray that she will stand strong on her own two feet, and not play the victim role and go crawling back to that fool. She strikes me as being a woman of integrity and strength but all we really know is that amazing presence, fashion sense, beauty, and voice. We don’t know all her at all. I hope she has a strong support system around her. She can do WAY better than that ass.
We’re rooting for you Rihanna! Whatever he says, whatever he does, no matter what bling he buys you… DON’T let him back, because statistics say he will do it again!
If you are anyone you know is in a violent relationship, and feel like you are in danger and you need help, you are NOT alone. No one deserves to be anyone else’s punching bag! People seriously need to DEAL with their issues!
Call for HELP RIGHT NOW!!
The National Domestic Violence Hotline
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
for the hearing impaired
1-800-787-3224 (TTY)
Help is available 24 hours 7 days a week in over 150 languages!




38 y.o.ny nj northern
February 11, 2009
SO FUNNY LMFAO, CHRIS LAMBO IS a rental BAD AZZ RIDE ! A
REPORT BY TMZ SHOWED A RECEIPT FOR THOUSANDS
A DAY!!!! WOW. AMAZING.
as IF HE HIT TALL LOVELY RIHANNA. OMG. THAT IS SAD BUT THEN
AGAIN NO ONE IS PERFECT,WE ARE STILL NOT SURE IF SHE PROVOKED HIM BUT
the BOTTOM LINE IS…..
if he did this CRIME……. he gots so surely do the time.
What a dummy……..
He is so stupid.
sigh
adios!
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
February 11, 2009
Thanks for weighing in your thoughts!
Please REMEMBER that there is NO EXCUSE on earth that is acceptable for beating your girlfriend
up and sending her to the hospital! NONE AT ALL!
We as a society should really be on the same page with that! It’s sickening to me that
some of us think there are exceptions to this rule?
You stated in your comment “not sure if he provoked her”
PROVOKED?? There is nothing 90lbs wet Rihanna could have done to provoke a beating.
This is not 1895 and she is not a slave or property. We would be more outraged Rihanna was
an English Pit Bull, than a woman!
We need to WAKE UP PEOPLE!!
MichaelJordanForever
February 13, 2009
Chris Brown is such a punk!!! No real man beats on a woman…period!…
and it is a pathetic thing that these little girls are finding ways to make his actions acceptable!
Goes to show you that maybe the young females are not the future if they think getting abused is acceptable…
F*** you Chris Brown if you really hit Rihanna!
Chris Brown is a dirty little coward prick
February 14, 2009
Like father like son
Mimi Loubeau
February 14, 2009
I was a fan too, really disappointed. I would take down some blogs but I leave it to show how I too was fooled. Good post, well written.
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
February 15, 2009
Thanks for stopping by Mimi!
I’m not only disappointed in Chris Brown, but I am also disappointed in the dozens of comments
made by young women that I have seen around the internet condoning this behavior.
I have seen some comments that have just made me want bury my head in shame and disbelief!
It is astonishing the level of disconnect from reality that is in the minds of our youth.
These women that are writing believe that because Chris Brown is cute guy who has made millions, and
can sing and dance well, makes him void of committing such an attrocious crime. It’s also alarming because many
of these comments indicate that these little girls really do believe that “they know” Chris Brown.
There is a real psychological epidemic with the youth culture and celebrities.
There is a distinction between being a fan of someone’s work, and the person behind that body of work.
It’s seems that these young ladies cannot grasp that fact.
It’s a hot real hot mess of a situation on all levels.
Sam
February 15, 2009
I LOVE YOU RIHANNA XXXXXXXX
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
February 15, 2009
Thanks for stopping by SAM!
I Heart Rihanna too!!
She is the cat’s meow and the dog’s tuxedo!
Lashae
February 15, 2009
I really feel bad for both parties in this situation. Obviously I feel bad for Rihanna because she was abused by someone she was in love with. With Chris, I feel bad that a young man would allow himself to let another woman to be put in the same situation that his mother was in with his Step-Father. I can’t wrap my head around that! Chris knew and openly talked about what his mother went through with his stepfather. The fact that he would even contemplate hitting a female, let alone doing it, is mind-boggling. I believe that because he is still young, he can change and become a better man and learn to control his anger.
NAPPER
February 16, 2009
DEFINITELY-AS WE WOULD SAY HERE IN SCOTLAND-CHRIS,YOURE A WOMAN BEATING PRICK
Abi
February 22, 2009
i feel so sorry for Rihanna !!
I mean i really like chris and this is the LAST thing I would have ever thought that he would
do! He beat up a girl…. he should be locked up for 99 years and never let out
stingr
February 22, 2009
I hope the string him be his testicles and beat and rape him. I hope his career goes down in flames and he ends up a drug addicted street walker. He is a piece of s***! Any man that beats a woman should just die.
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
February 23, 2009
Thanks so much for your commentary…
Good Lawd… you are harsh..
But you know what? If he serves any jail time, he will probably get just that.
His career has already suffered. Yes everyone makes mistakes but the consequences
of mistakes can’t be undone.
We live in a forgiving society. We forgive celebrities for DUI’s, various drug addictions, sex outside of marriage
but I have YET to see us embrace a celebrity back in our good graces who has been convicted of battery..
Peace out CB… I hope you enjoyed every minute of your short career, because it’s OVER!
Jon
February 22, 2009
i feel sad
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
February 23, 2009
Hey Jon,
Thanks for your comment.
I know boo, I feel sad too!
It’s sad that this is acceptable behavior in our society!
Do you know I had YET ANOTHER ignorant woman write in saying
that she supports Chris Brown? Somehow in her crack head she believes that her
and Chris Brown will be together??? This is what she wrote (direct quote)
“forget rhianna i neva liked her music in da first place…..
im glad cchris brown hit her i LOVE HIM SO MUCH….
rhianna was fake jus like the ppl leavn bad comment
forget all yall and leave chris brown alone…!!!!!!!!!!”
“I’m glad Chris Brown HIT HER… I love him so much”
WOW.. If those are the demented women who are fans of Chris Brown, then
as an artist I have lost 100% respect. He already lost my respect on a human level.
It’s a sad state of affairs no matter how you dice it.
ZY'KERIAH AKA JUSTIN'S WIFEY
April 23, 2009
well well well, to bad mii husband go arrested…….. i still love
CHRIS BROWN NO MATTER WHAT ERR BODI ELES SAY
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
April 23, 2009
I decided to post Number 16. comment because I wanted my readers to really know that I don’t make these comments up!
Nevada
June 30, 2009
this is prolly coming from a womans perspective so why would your opinion matter to anyone except for a woman population. so stfu this will be over as quick as it started. PROVOKED as in 2 closed fist to chris it’s legal to hit back.
George Johnston
September 7, 2009
Chris Brown is an a** hole mother f****** !!
George Johnston
September 7, 2009
Chris brown sucks d***
KINGMARIA
January 25, 2010
NOT!! CHRISBROWN IS FINE DONT LISTEN TO THEM HATERS THEY are jelous of you
efie
February 18, 2010
chris brown is forever mi baby but he is always a woman beater on god 4real
Tasharr Ann
March 2, 2010
okay, seriously! why have people got involved in this anyway, its there private life! and this stupid blog is pathetic! no need for all the smart arse comments either, leave Chris alone! maybe she provoked him, we dont know. he would have done it for a reason anyway, hes not the type of person to lash out at someone. and tbff maybe she did deserve it, she needs to get back to reality and notice she cant sing, she dresses like a slag and is NOT in any way, shape or form a good role model! shew needs to sort herself out! and maybe she cheated on him with someone? Naked photos? i personally dont like her at all, ever since she did ‘unfaithful’ she turned into a slag and she changed her hair and the way she dressed she has become a slut and its not good for a young audience, like myself, to see that.
and btw he only rented THAT Lamborghini, he does own his own, that he bought himself for his 18th birthday and its blue.
dont hate on me for sharing my opinion ffs! get a life ppl and stop hating on Chris, its in the past weve moved on. just because of the incident doesnt mean he is no longer talented either! his music is great and he is amazing at what he does.
x
Kevin
March 14, 2010
Why is the punishment for domestic abuse so low?
Men who beat women should spend some time in Prison!!!
nightlycandywithnanaadwoa
March 15, 2010
Hiya Kevin.
Thank you for stopping by Nightly Candy and leaving your comment.
I applaud you for your condemnation of domestic violence.
Could you believe that it is men who have written in to condemn Chris Brown’s behavior?
Nightly Candy receives comments everyday from women suffering from low-self image and a serious lack of basic grammar skills. They proclaim their love and devotion to Chris Brown. Many women who write in and give support to Chris Brown claim that Rihanna must have provoked him in some way.
It’s truly a sad state of affairs.
Women have to be the FIRST to not tolerate domestic abuse. If there are women out there who believe getting beat until your face is unrecognized as human is justified then it will continue to happen.
Qiana
July 12, 2010
you defenders are probably bullies yourselves. it is never alright to hit someone else, let alone a woman. shame on you for defending this woman, mother, daughter, child beater. if it was your woman, mother, daughter, sister or child would you forgive?
CICI
August 12, 2010
OK, setting the record straight would it have been a problem if rhianna had punched Chris Brown in the face? Exactly it wouldn’t have been a problem,he would just be considered as a punk. This is the past he said his apologizes and that’s that. You guys can’t keep faulting him like this cause it’s not going to change the fact that this happened move on!!! I support him to the fullest because he really has a good heart. Besides if someone hit you in the nose with a phone and you see the blood coming out of your nose you’d be pretty pissed enough to punch them.
Kk
September 9, 2010
Comment no.17, i wish u were in riri’s position. You wud be cursing cb all the way to the court. You justify what he did? You must be so heartless then. And about how she dresses, what do u care? Its her lyf. Thats just jealousy talk coz CB ain’t wit u. Just open your eyes